The Visionary
The one who wants it done properly
You have a clear picture of the life you want together: the flat, the savings target, the trips, the wedding or a commitment that means the same. You push to make it happen and you notice fast when your partner isn't keeping up. When you are annoyed it comes out quickly and sharply, often by text, and an hour later you regret the tone. You show love by working hard for the two of you more than by saying soft things.
Superpowers
- Clear goals: you turn a vague wish like we should travel more into a date, a budget and a confirmed booking.
- Noticing what slipped: you spot the bill nobody paid or the plan that stalled, and you deal with it before it grows.
- All in: once you have chosen someone, you plan your future around them and you expect them to do the same.
Uncalibrated blind spot
Saying it too sharply
When something falls short, like a forgotten booking or a late reply, you say so straight away and at full strength. Your point is usually fair. Your partner reacts to the tone, and the argument turns into one about how you said it.